Sheree Hipwell: Does any girls every feel like their man doesnt want to get married and you do?? Im in slump
Jacques Teri: Men are as stupid as women are bitchy (yes, I'm a woman). Does he follow through on anything? If he does, then accept that cooking seems to be a drag for him or maybe he's genuinely tired? He works, right? (I certainly hope so) Do you work? If not, maybe you should stick to the cooking. If you live in my world and both work, then you should probably start splitting off the chores. Are these the worst of the problems? I hope so.
Lindsey Zanardi: Been there. Looking back, I am glad and thankful that I never married any of those guy from the past. Sometime, it feels right because the emotions are there but in actuality, it is not the best thing or the right time. Now that I am married, I know that when the right guy comes along, he will want to marry you without hesitation.
Marcellus Exler: My parents were divorced. I'm divorce! d.For me - I go into relationships knowing they can end. I never really believe it could last for forever. If love you someone enough - it works. I still believe in marriage....Show more
Simona Bulwinkle: First off you should check your own spelling before you label all men as stupid. I think maybe your husband has some issues or he is just trying to get you to learn how to cook. I think if your relying on him to cook it is dumb. I'm not sexist but really you should know how to cook some things without your hubby helping out. Maybe he was so tired from putting the grill together that he needed a rest. Really I would ask if he suffers from something that causes him to pass-out for no reason?. Maybe if you inticed him by wearing nothing and saying honey I'm dessert after dinner is made and we have eaten that may keep him awake?....Show more
Talisha Digrande: because they are, and we have the moms that did everything for them instead of teaching them how t! o take care of themselves to thank. happy mother's day.
! Oren Eskelsen: A marriage is only as strong as it's weakest link. If he is apprehensive, for whatever reason, then he definitely shouldn't get engaged to you. Either he's not ready, or you're not Miss Right!
Wilfredo Muldoon: Men aren't stupid that was kinda rude. All men have dorky things that drive us nuts but we also do things to make them nuts too. If that's all hes doing then soooo what!!!!! Men who don't work get drunk and beat their children and wife's are stupid. You man is just beat let him sleep and stop assuming hes going to cook.
Cletus Makler: Have you ever thought that perhaps he is just promising to cook to keep you sweet? Either take away his alcohol, and make sure he gets to the cooking, or simply cook yourself every night. He sounds as if he has a problem with alcohol, so see about getting him some help. Failing that, you could always just learn to live with him the way he is, or leave!
Mahalia Brindle: Statistically, I have heard yes. ! But you know, everyone is so different and everyone goes through different situations, so nothing is for certain! My parents and my in laws have both been married for over 30 years, I know that has definitely helped to shape my and my hubby's view on marriage. We are both very committed to our marriage and making it work - even through all the bad times....Show more
Bob Pucella: everynite he says he is going to cook but then he passes out and i have to or not eat whats the deal in addition i went out and bout a grill he put it together tonight said he would grill and guess what passed out??
Cassey Hollinghurst: I'm not really sure how he tried to hide it if he left evidence on a shared computer. It pretty basic to eliminate evidence. It's only porn, and he is a guy. Is there a need to do anything?
Queenie Ruthers: Marriage is a legal arrangement, and doesn't really affect anything other than legal issues. It certainly doesn't guarantee that he's going to ! stay around, and it can be expensive to get unmarried if your prince tu! rns back into a toad later. If he's going to stay around, it won't be because of a piece of paper. I waited several years before making it legal, and it didn't hurt a thing.
Garrett Detone: i think your stupid. he works all day he has the right to pass out. its up to you to cook. dummy
Timmy Bustard: He might not be stupid, he is either ill or trying to avoidthe responsibility of cooking.
Tillie Wynott: Aw. Sorry to say but I would feel really bad in that situation. Sounds like he's just not ready. You shouldnt insist on it to him if he's not ready yet. It could end up being a disaster.
Dick Baumgarten: If he isn't ready, don't push! I have seen too many people get married for the wrong reasons, if you feel like he should be ready and he isn't - you will know when to move on. If he loves you, truly, he will come for you.
Trena Berum: Just an added FYI, Its not because he's not getting sex. We still have sex as much as we did before I was p! regnant. Also I'm only bothered that he's signing up for this sites, because we are having a baby in a little over a month. We hardly have any money as it is.
Dick Maisenbacher: I think you should consider asking yourself how you think your relationship will be any different if you are married? I'm sorry if this sounds harsh but if you are insecure in a relationship at this stage, getting married will not necessarily rectify that. Try and take things as they come and enjoy your time together.
Corey Rohleder: no what you fear comes true---because you constantly have it on your mind------get it out of your mind- watch and learn what not to do and what to do- watch others that have long good marriages.
Ambrose Mumma: If you don't care that he watches porn, why do you need to do anything about it? You're probably not feeling like having a lot of sex, being eight months pregnant. He needs an outlet. It's probably a little embarrassing for him to com! e right out and tell you he's doing it. Let it go.
Noah Deni: ye! s higher chance. You come from a broken home, you learn things from your parents just by watching them, even if subconciously.
Donnell Mollo: no,,, if your mom steps in a water puddle does that increase your risk of stepping in a water puddle?
Mauro Cowee: Others would say DEFINITELY. Their logic would say "it runs in the family."To me, it is only "a matter of choice." Which means, divorce don't just happen. It happens only if you choose to let it happen.It does not matter if your parents are divorced or non-divorced. What matters is the effort you both put in the relationship to keep your marriage....Show more
Violette Vanek: The porn thing is something he keeps in his "cave," that part of a man's life or psyche that he must have to himself without a woman or anyone involved.The kind of porn he watches might be an indicator. Sometimes men might have a secret fetish that they want to be stimulated by without having anyone know about it. Nothing wrong wi! th that. If he chooses to try something from the porn with you then at that point there should be a conversation.He also may be gearing up for the arrival of the baby, after which he'll cease to hold top priority in your daily life. Rather than resenting you for attending to the infant or coercing you to have sex when you're exhausted, he'll siphon off the "pressure" rubbing it out to nasty videos.Don't trip on this-- seriously. If he's doing this and not cheating on you then count yourself lucky. Just make sure that you're balancing his porn consumption with a healthy sex regimen between the two of you to keep him grounded in real-world intimate situations (post-pregnancy, of course). Porn viewing minus sex with you might lead him to objectify the sexual act.Your biggest issue here is his hiding the porn because, for women, trust and openness is the foundation of a healthy relationship; but you're overthinking it here (hiding it may be part of his kink)-- just let him! masturbate in peace....Show more
Thomas Riner: We've been marrie! d for about 6 months, and he's just recently been signing up for porn site, and what not. I've never known him to do stuff like this. I'm 8 months pregnant as well. I don't really care if he watches porn, It's just that he signs up for it, and tried to hide it. We share a computer, which is how I know about this. I just don't know what to do.
Antwan Schrum: Yes. When one's parents get divorced, they inadvertantly 'teach' their children to do the same. It's not a guarantee by any means, but it's more likely to happen. I'm from a divorced family and I got divorced too, so there's one statistic for you.
Toby Women: If your man doesn't feel the urge to marry you or at least to get engaged then in truth he's not all that into you.When a man is truly in love he will shout from the top of the roof at the top of his voice that he loves you and this DEFINITELY means that he wants you to be his wife, and makes no apologies.So, I figure that such a luke-warm attitude fr! om him only tells me that he will never decide to take the plunge at this point and especailly not with you. I know you can do better with someone who will meet your needs and who will want to marry you.It's your choice. You either go with it for the sake of 'friendship' or whatever you have in common at this point,, knowing that this is a dead-end relationship or you decide to suck it in and move on.I would definitely do the latter...Show more
Gilberto Cratin: Simply ask him about it. What really gets me is why people wont be up front with there partner. Just ask him. Its really that simple. If you have no problem with it and just wondering why, then start out with that "Hun, You know I dont care about you looking at porn, but why are you signing up for the websites?" Boom easy. And his answer will probably be, "because if you sign up to a website (an credited site) Your less likely to get viruses. If you just Google porn, more than likely, you'll get a virus."
Jonelle Eligio: honey this depends on how old you both are and how long you have been dating.. i was with my boyfriend for 5 years before we got engaged we have been together for 10 years now and married for 5. Make sure before you push the marriage idea you are both prepared to be married, you both need to be on the same page and want the same things. If you want a house and children and he wants an apartment and his buddies it may be that you are in a more mature state in your life, you cant expect someone to be at the same point in life as you are. If he is someone who doesn't share the! same interests than the question shouldn't be I want get married at least engaged and he doesn't? It should be should i stay with this person and waste more time or should i try to make myself happy by finding someone who shares the same interests and dreams as i do.Best of luck sweetie...Show more
Evelin Turlich: From one of your other questions, you're dealing with a violent alcoholic. If you're so smart, why don't you deal with the problem? How about going to al-anon and getting some help with his drinking issues?
Sammy Kar: I'm surprised you're just now finding out about this. I knew my husband looked at porn before we got married. It's just something guys do. Mostly to relieve stress...or a sudden urge. Doesn't mean he doesn't love you. He may have tried to hide it because he didn't want to make you feel bad or unwanted. As long as his porn is not replacing you,then I wouldn't worry.
Tyrone Disanti: Well, the statistics are grim. I have included o! ne reference for your perusal.However, be of good hope. Marriage is sti! ll a worthy institution, but it has always been hard, even under the best of circumstances.Consider that it only takes one of the two partners to end it. Given the ease with which one can get divorced today, there will continue to be an increase in divorce. Marriage is not an easy road. That means that even 'though you have a higher statistical chance for divorce, everyone today faces a high chance. Divorce has become, unfortunately, an epidemic of sorts. If you want a happy marriage, try to find someone who has old-fashioned morals, and talk openly about the hard path ahead. If you both accept that times will be rocky, you can create your own plan to stay together. It can work, and it is your life.Driving a car is statistically very dangerous, but you still do that, right?By the way, 70% of divorces today are begun by the woman, so if you really decide to stay married, you can beat the stats, as it is statiscally less unlikley that your husband will divorce you.Don't let s! ome stats take away your life's goals....Show more
Marty Tichnell: And if you are sleeping with him...why should he get married...he gets it all now. That is just awful to say...I only hope to empower women in that the man doesn't have the last word on where we are going! It shouldn't be all about what HE wants to do ... but what YOU want to do. You want to get married...go find someone that will marry you. You deserve to be married if that is what you want. Don't be in a slump...be pro-active. Go get another job if you have one and meet new people. Tell people you are only working the second job so you can meet people. It is really important that women believe in themselves. Believes they can do anything! They can overcome bad relationships...debt...their bad decisions...THEY CAN RULE THE WORLD! Get positive girl !! It is your life...OWN IT!!...Show more
Shelley Stevens: My family is really messed up and it made me want so much more for myself. I wo! n't just settle. I wanted love and respect in my life and I got it. M! e and my husband are rock solid. It just depends on what you want in your life.
Mark Villifana: probably.I don't know where I would fall because my parents divorced because my mom found out she was a lesbian. i doubt there is a statistic to that! lol
Esmeralda Pigram: Explain to him that there's plenty of free porn on the internet and he doesn't need to be spending money (for which you'll need plenty due to the baby whether it's his or not) on registering for crap which he can get plenty of elsewhere.Tell him to try youporn.com It's like youtube but for porn.
Kenneth Thuesen: Rent the movie, "Fire proof" and talk with him about it afterwards.You can't act like you don't know and no healthy marriage can survive addiction--which it is. The very fact he's hiding it from you ought to tell you how serious his addiction is.If he is extremely visual promise him that as soon as you "get your figure back" you all can make your own photos for him.
Janean G! uz: Why would he be stupid? You married him and you let him drink or whatever he does to pass out.
Moira Woodrow: not all men are stupid!what does him passing out have to do with men being stupid?whats he passing out from, a hard day at work or a hard days drinking?
Marcellus Exler: "How come men act like we'd desire to grant them intercourse?" properly men act like that because of the fact some men are actually not something yet canines and mabye your only assembly no longer something yet canines or seeing all men as no longer something yet canines yet no longer all men are canines and can anticipate intercourse each and every time your waiting, and that i whould sell off a woman if i became first relationship if she became a virgin because of the fact I dont pick to be the single to...pass farther with that. And in the journey that your by no ability goign to place out for a guy your eventualy going to discover a guy who's keen to attend yet your lacking out o! n the exciting. MY female pal and that i've got an settlement that we d! o it whilst the others waiting and if we dont understand we attempt and if we fail oh properly thats the top of it....Show more
Emilie Santmyer: I think so, I am divorced, but I haven't remarried and in fact stay on my own. I tell my kids I was raised that you get married once and if you can't make it work, being alone is the price you pay. So I hope the will do their best to make their marriages work when that time comes.
Marcelle Vanlith: Surveys have shown that infants with divorced parens do certainly have a bigger cost. even nonetheless it would not ought to ensue. You administration your individual movements. there's a phase of the inhabitants that considers divorce unacceptable. And the youngsters are raised with that innovations-set. we've been married 20+ years, and a brilliant style of cases shall we've divorced, yet we did not. We do exactly not evaluate it an option.
Ira Porietis: Yes it makes it more likely that you will divorce and also th! at you will cheat. Not that you will though
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